How can i stop being nervous about kissing guys? advice please?

When making out, and if things get intense then chances are guys will want to take it further. There's nothing wrong with making out, and there's nothing wrong with not wanting to be one of "those" girls. If kissing is too intense for the guy, and you feel like it's going too far, stop french kissing, and just go to normal kissing, maybe kiss his neck lightly instead. If his hands start to wander, don't feel awkward about moving them to where you are comfortable. You need to have confidence in your own power. It is you who chooses how far anything goes, and only you will know where you are comfortable with. Any guy who cares will respect you. If you do have to stop them from getting too riled up, maybe move his hands to where you are comfortable, and whisper in his ear "Not yet", then kiss his nose or something. Keep it light and flirty, that way he won't be put off. Respect yourself, and guys will too. Good luck, have fun :) x