Would you be angry with a man if he rejects oral/anal sex?

Not all men fit the stereotype of "want to do it every way imaginable". Your husband may find the thought of you giving him oral degrading to you, and he probably just isn't attracted to the thought of anal sex (I know a lot of straight men who find anal sex to be repulsing). I would sit down and talk to him about slowly changing your sex life into a more diverse one. Best of luck to you.